CoMmuniCation Error...

When someone says ," There's no way I am going with you anywhere!"..... What the hell is that supposed to mean? There is just ONE way in which it could be interpreted - I DON'T WANT TO GO ANYWHERE WITH YOU. How dense are you? Don't you get the point? Leave me alone! I want to die.. or cry.. or pick lice... or ... whatever... Just leave me alone!

Telephonic conversations are sometimes deceiving. You end up hearing things you'd rather not... Or atleast you imagine the worst possible meaning.... Or maybe it was supposed to mean that way.. You'd never know. Especially if the person communicating requires you to break through his defences with a pickaxe just to.... well... COMMUNICATE!

The good thing would be to probably talk it out in person... Launch a war.. A war of words.. A verbatim to get it out of your system... But the point is, it has to be a WORD WAR. War requires TWO warring factions. Whats the point if I (Duh! the more verbose) battle it out and theres NO opposition? So this way becomes a failure. A miserable one at that.

So that takes me back to telephonic conversations. When verbal duels are launched over the phone, the advantage of the silent type is that he can disconnect at leisure while at the opposite end a near earthquake is underway. When the beep beep of the dead line finally makes it to the ears, the earthquake reaches magnific proportions giving rise to volcanic eruptions (= tears of frustration).

So technically, there's no way to sort out a problem between two friends unless both can communicate about the problem in question.

And to communicate means the ability to 'Communicate'... as in to talk... to speak. Which is why God gives us a mouth, with a tongue and vocal chords in the first place.

So start talking.

Prevent fights.

CHEERS!!!!!! ;P :)